Miranda Lambert – “We Should Be Friends”: A Lighthearted Ode to Real Women and Honest Connections
Miranda Lambert has always had a gift for blending humor, heart, and truth in her music, and her 2017 single “We Should Be Friends” is a perfect example of that talent. With a laid-back beat and tongue-in-cheek lyrics, the song is a fun, clever celebration of imperfection, independence, and the kind of friendship that doesn’t need to be polished to be real.
At its core, “We Should Be Friends” is Miranda’s way of saying: “If you’ve been through some things, if you’re a little messy, and if you’re still standing — then we’ve probably got a lot in common.” It’s a message that resonates deeply with listeners who have lived long enough to know that life doesn’t always go as planned, and that some of the best relationships come from shared scars and laughter.
For older fans especially, the song may feel like a conversation between kindred spirits — women who’ve made mistakes, learned from them, and aren’t afraid to show a little grit. Lines like “If you use alcohol as a sedative and bless your heart as a negative” are delivered with Miranda’s trademark sass, but there’s wisdom behind the wit. It’s about accepting yourself, flaws and all, and finding joy in connecting with others who do the same.
Musically, the track is simple and rootsy — leaning into a country-rock groove that’s easy on the ears. It’s the kind of song you could play during a kitchen dance with friends or hum along to while enjoying a quiet moment on the porch.
“We Should Be Friends” reminds us that real friendship isn’t about perfection. It’s about honesty, laughter, and knowing you’re not alone — even in your quirks. And for anyone who’s lived a little life, that’s a message worth singing.
